Not every idea or thought you come across is for you or requires anything from you.
I’ve had lots of wobbles over the last year as I’ve started coming out about my coaching business. From ‘what will people think of me’ to ‘I can’t do this’, or ‘you’re never going to succeed’. I’m having one now while I’m writing (‘you’re not explaining this well’) Every wobble is a direct result ofContinue reading “Are you being true to yourself or to the person you are becoming?”
“I am not throwing away my shot!” exclaims Alexander Hamilton in the mega-hit Broadway and West End musical, Hamilton. It’s an admirable sentiment. How many times a day, a week, a month do you do just that by comparing your life, your career, your possessions, your body, your clothes or your successes (or lack) toContinue reading “Comparison Is A Killjoy”
It’s Friday night and you’re down the pub with your mates, or you’re hanging round the coffee machine with your co-workers, and you’re in moaning mode. I’ve been there, you’ve been there. Glass or mug in hand, putting the world to rights and letting everyone know why something isn’t as it should be. Let’s faceContinue reading “How what you complain about might be costing you – and what to do about it”
“Would you tell me, please, which way I ought to walk from here?” “That depends a good deal on where you want to get to,” said the Cat. “I don’t much care where-” said Alice. “Then it doesn’t matter which way you walk,” said the Cat. “So long as I get somewhere,” Alice added, asContinue reading “Where do you want to get to?”